New Paradigm (5D) Love


Maybe you’ve been single for a long time, struggling to get into (or stay in) a relationship—in part because you know you won’t settle, in part because you know you can’t bypass your intuition and it just HAS TO feel right.

With this, have you thought many people could be or were the one, or at a minimum, you were getting closer to this?

Even more importantly, though, have you always craved to be in a relationship with your equal where you could be your true, full and weird(!) self?!

And, most importantly, somewhere deep inside of you, have you’ve known you were destined for GREAT LOVE, the kind of love that makes you ecstatic to wake up in the morning AND the kind of love that makes having waited so long, worth it? (Important to note: This is from a real and grounded space, not from a giddy and unsustainable place, though giddiness may be an after effect. :))

Know this is possible, and if you’ve found me, it’s closer than you may think.

Let me help you to create feel-right, all-in, juicy, New Paradigm Love™ along with healing what’s in the way of this.

Imagine no more waiting for the right love.

(By the way, I work with women wanting to get into this type of relationship, as well as women who are in a relationship right now, and yet want to create more with it, including strengthening their relationship with themselves and healing so many of the patterns that block loving, kind and reciprocal relationships.)




In this class, I’ll share with you the undiscussed reasons why, up until this point, love maybe hasn’t fully worked for you, along with powerful, high-level, relational awarenesses, tools and practices.


On this call, I’ll share with you the truth about why this is actually happening, giving you a fresh perspective into your relationship patterns and why your relationships really aren’t working for you while helping you to put together a plan to shift this—for good. This assessment is perfect if you’re wanting to dive deep, gain new insights + awarenesses about yourself and your relationships while beginning to explore working together.


This is the love you have always craved, and yet, maybe you didn’t even know existed.

With this, are you craving to be seen in your relationship? That’s this.

Are you desiring your partner to be truly present with you? That’s this, too.

Also, are you wanting to know what creates magnetic levels of attraction in your partnership? You may have guessed it ;), but that’s this, too.

Even deeper, when we know how to tap into this, there’s an aliveness that exists where, instead of falling flat or dying at some point, the relationship continues to grow and expand, getting more and more exciting!!!

What are the components of New Paradigm Love™?

  • Authenticity and Truth
  • Vulnerability
  • Communication
  • Embodiment
  • Safety
  • Healing and Forgiveness
  • Trusting
  • Intuition
  • Energy
  • Polarity
  • Presence


“I was so lucky to find Deb at the peak of a two year period of depression and anxiety. I’ve dealt with both for most of my life and while there were years that were better, it felt like something that would always be in the background. Deb is the only person I’ve worked with who was actually able to help me reframe my thinking and outlook on life. She took me back to the very beginning to figure out where a lot of my thinking stemmed from and challenged me to break these patterns. Things that I felt were just part of me like overthinking everything are now gone. I read something on her website that said one session with Deb is more valuable than years of therapy and that is 100 percent true. I am so much happier and lighter and for the first time I feel like I have the mindset and tools I need to get through anything. I have a healthier relationship with myself and everyone around me! Deb changed my life! ” – Ally S.  

“I learned more about my life and self in 4 months with Deb than in nearly 4 years of therapy! Her pattern-breaking sessions helped me identify what was holding me back in life and where those patterns stem from. Since meeting Deb I’ve found my path in life and more importantly, found myself. Couldn’t recommend her enough!” – Sarah K.  

“Deb’s work is completely different than any other coaching or therapy I have done; and as a therapist I have done much personal work myself. Her work comes from such a caring place of strength and understanding.  She intuitively knows where to go while also allowing the client to be the ultimate guide and leader of their lives for creating dynamic change. She teaches how to be truly relational with oneself and others, and she shows her clients how to reconnect with all aspects of self through feeling one’s feelings in new ways to find our own truth. I have never experienced work like this before, and how tuned in and knowledgeable Deb is. What a gift it is to engage in this process with Deb!” – Lexi M.

Meet Deb Acker:

As an Intuitive Relationship Healer and Master of Love :), I am brilliant at helping women to heal their relationships + create a deep and intimate love relationship, where they feel seen, heard, loved and respected, a relationship that contains a richness, depth and breadth of life that is so exciting to be inlong termyou can’t get enough of it, a relationship that continues to grow and expand in every minute, with every breath.

But, Deb, how do you know how to create this and how can you call yourself a Master of Love? (Just writing this now, this title puts such a big smile on my face.) Simply put, after lifetimes (yes, lifetimes!) of studying life, love, relationships and growth (to name a few!), not only learning what it takes to heal ourselves and our relationships, but what it takes to create deep relationships, first and foremost with ourselves, then with others and the world, especially in love, I can say wholeheartedly I know exactly what it takes to create the highest levels of relationship (aka New Paradigm Love) that have ever existed up on this planet up to this point. With this, in this lifetime, I set it up to teach others how to create their own versions of this for feel-right, all-in, juicy, New Paradigm Love.

As part of this, in creating our relationships from this paradigm, we feel so safe, held and cared for that we can always bring forth our true desires from our true selves.

As we do this, this is where the aliveness, realness and juiciness exists. This is what I support my clients and community with. To get started, you can sign-up for my 10/10 LOVE: Complimentary 2-hr Immersion or apply for my Complimentary 30-Minute Relationship Assessment. Either way, know you will leave with powerful, new + high-level awarenesses that you’ve likely never heard before. That being said, I’d love to connect with you further in one of these.

With this, know, whether you’re in a relationship or not, no more waiting to have love that feels right.


Painful Relationships Healing Course…

(Deb’s Starter Course for New Paradigm Love™!)

This course is perfect if you’re struggling in your relationships, and yet, you’re looking for more of a self-study approach or on a limited budget. In this course, I share the necessary and powerful tools to not only heal yourself, your relationships and relationship patterns, but to start creating healthy, loving relationships (and communication!) in your life.

You can find out more and enroll here.

Recent interviews with Deb

The Sage Sisters with Hailey McLennan and Megan DierckinsCreating Deep and Intimate Conversations with Yourself and Those Around You

The Healing Place Podcast with Teri Wellbrock – Intuitive Relationship Healing, Vulnerability and Sensitivity

For more Podcasts, head here.

Helpful blog posts for you on all kinds of love and relationship topics…

How to Not Let Loved Ones’ Negativity Impact You

Opening Up About Our Sensitivities to Others

How to Have Hard Conversations

For more blogs, head here, and to receive Deb’s blogs bi-monthly, head here.

Powerful videos sharing more about new paradigm love along with the real reasons for painful relationships + how to begin healing these

What to Do When You’re Scared to Speak Your Truth

Why You Feel Alone in Your Relationships

The Biggest Thing You Can Do If People Keep Leaving in Relationships


For more videos, relationship truths and healing, head to Deb’s YouTube Channel, The Relationship Healing Channel for Women.

Ready to get started working together? Join me at the 10/10 LOVE: 2-HR IMMERSION or apply for my RELATIONSHIP ASSESSMENT! I genuinely can’t wait to connect with you!




As an Intuitive Relationship Healer, I value the relationship I have with my Social Media Community, and I nurture it by sharing parts of myself as well as new awarenesses, practices and tools that can really support you. I’d be thrilled to meet you there!