Coaching

THE NUMBER ONE THING THAT HOLDS PROFESSIONALS BACK FROM HAVING THE LIFE THEY WANT IS THEIR EMOTIONS.

Let me explain.

When we are young, usually between the ages of 0 to 7, we are subconsciously taking on (or choosing against) all of our parents’ patterns, emotions and truths. And, while in the moment, these appear to be ours, and we take them on as such, as we go out into our adult world, we end up magnetizing from these patterns over and over, and then we wonder why we don’t have what we want, are struggling, in self-doubt and facing so much pain. To top it off, we can feel that feeling of incongruity and really, of not being authentic, first with ourselves, then with others, yet we don’t know what to do with it, but we know there’s something more to life.

THAT’S WHERE I COME IN.

Case in point:

  • A high-level doctor who had it all on the outside, including the career, husband and kids, but was seeking more – more truth, more realness and more authenticity. With our work, she began to own all pieces of herself, not just the ones she was supposed to present to the world, and she began to move away from the things that were out of alignment with her true truth and towards her true desires, the ones she had never dared to share.
  • A successful executive who was separated from her husband and was in a career transition. In just a short period of time, she had her first awakening and began to live from her soul’s call and purpose to see the true truth of life versus the life she thought she was supposed to have. In that time, she moved out of her place and found her purpose and a career where she is thriving.
  • A businessman who had experienced trauma in his childhood that he had subconsciously stuffed down. Unknowingly, this trauma was impacting all areas of his life. Through us working together, he was able to identify and let go of this trauma to go after his dream and create a truly authentic life from his truth versus his trauma’s truth.
  • A single woman who had a relationship pattern that was impacting all of her relationships, including her love life. As part of this, she didn’t have a strong sense of self and many times, was just doing what other people thought was right for her. We cleared this dominating relationship pattern, and she is now dating the love of her life.
  • A consultant of a Fortune 500 Company who hadn’t smiled in eighteen months. Our time together helped her to clear her pain and stop obsessing to get clear on where she was meant to live and open her to another world, filled with joy, opportunities and smiling. 🙂
  • An IT business owner who had struggled for over 10 years with the relationship with her daughter. In just a few sessions, she dramatically shifted how she experienced her relationship with her daughter for the better.
  • A businesswoman who had suffered from parental abuse, abuse that was driving her whole life. In working together, she shifted the relationship she had with her parents significantly and got clarity on what was truly important in her life and how she wanted to move forward.
  • A personal trainer who was struggling with self-doubt and self-acceptance. She was looking for answers outside of herself. In a short period, we identified and cleared her biggest patterns to allow her to step into her power, intuition and truth, with the unexpected benefit of losing weight. She is now on her path.

 

Hi – I’m Deb, and to understand how I got to the above conclusion, and how I now help others to do the same, I want to share my story with you.

For me, this story starts before the age of two. It was at that time, that my dad left our house. And, while at the time, of course, he was leaving my mom, my two-year-old self had no way to differentiate between him leaving her and him leaving me. And, what I would later come to realize is that, subconsciously, in the moment my dad was leaving, I had made up several conclusions, two of which were: 1) Love equaled leaving. After all, my dad loved me, and yet he was leaving. 2) I would always be left. While I didn’t know it at the time, I would later see that the above conclusions got stored in my body as energy/emotions, and that they would become a magnetizer for much of my experiences and relationships moving forward.

Fast forward to when I’m 17, and my mom passes away from cancer. And, while it may sound harsh to some, I believe I played a role in co-creating that reality.

So, years later, as I’m attracting the same type of man over and over from the above pattern, I went on a quest to change this, and really, to find love. At that time, I thought it was love of another. What I would find out was the love I was looking for was within.

In the process, after spending a decade in unsuccessful therapy, (You know where you have awareness of your story, but this awareness doesn’t do anything to change it.), I would uncover the quickest way to undo deep-seeded patterns, pain and trauma, and I would also find out that, because of the trauma I experienced at an early age, I was comfortable in the places most people weren’t willing to go.

Through my journey, I’ve learned that running away from myself, my emotions and my pain only caused more of it, and that your only true way out is in. Today, I embrace it all to feel the light in the darkness, the joy in the sadness and the perfection in the pain. This has meant the ability to live in joy, no matter what’s occurring, and that my joy is abundant(!) and independent of the people, places or things that are in my life. I’m also happy to say the my abandonment pattern has been cleared! (I know how painful it is to have a pattern that’s impacting all areas of your life and to think this will never change. This is why I now help my clients to clear their deepest-routed patterns.)

On the flip side, I’ve studied everything from business, sales and advertising/marketing to transformation, spirituality, personal growth and various healing modalities. I spent 20 years in the Corporate World, and while I was there, I used energy clearing to make over a million dollars in sales (more than three times my sales goal and any of my previous years in sales!), without changing anything in my sales routine.

After I got on this path and my awakening, I made a decision to move out of the Corporate World because I realized your career should energize you, not deplete you. That you should wake up excited for every day of life, and while part of it is your perspective on what’s happening in your environment at any given moment, the other part is taking a stand for yourself, your life and your happiness.

And, guess what?! My life isn’t perfect, and I love this about me. I didn’t always think this way, though. I used to think that this was the end goal, that that was what I was working towards. I now realize the perfection is in the imperfection. That living in the now is what makes every moment. That my life is beautiful because of the range of emotions, not outside of it.

Others will tell you, I’m extremely loyal, loving and intuitive. That our time together will take you deep quickly (I’ve had people experience their first awakening in as little as five minutes of energy clearing with me.) and that I’ve accomplished anything I’ve ever set my mind to.  If you stick with me, I can help you do the same!

 

 

Want to know more? Check out the below for ways we can work together!

And, if you’re wanting support, but One-on-One Coaching isn’t a good fit, find out more about my Love, Light and Abundance Energy-Clearing Classes here and look for my Energy-Clearing Program, Coming Soon!

 

stephaniecirihalDeb helped me break a pattern that I had with my ex-husband where I felt dread and obligation about communicating with him. Every time he reached out, I felt I needed to respond, and she pinpointed exactly that my block was feeling powerless with him. She worked with me to remove that block, and I instantly felt stronger and more centered. Which of course was immediately tested by him. Something in me shifted and I was able to act in alignment with my power and truth with him in an unprecedented way. One session with Deb was more powerful than 10 years of therapy.   – Stephanie C.

SarahKI learned more about my life and self in 4 months with Deb than in nearly 4 years of therapy! Her pattern-breaking sessions helped me identify what was holding me back in life and where those patterns stem from. Since meeting Deb I’ve found my path in life and more importantly, found myself. Couldn’t recommend her enough!”  – Sarah K.

321460_156466444442160_1006161978_n“It’s hard to put into words how much I’ve changed since working with Deb, but I’ll say this. For anyone desiring to do this work, I believe Deb can help you come from and respond with truth, authenticity and heart. Through the process she walked me through, which took the story out of everything that was holding me back, my life took on a new flow, with more ease, clarity and peace. This, all in love, kindness and understanding. If you believe you’re meant to be truly happy now and that you’re not meant to settle, Deb’s the coach for you!”  – Deb B.

 

It’s my mission to support people who are ready to stop lying to themselves and others to have a life where they are no longer settling and instead, they are standing in, owning and speaking their truth each and every day. As part of this, they know their worth and they are no longer relying on other people or things for answers, value, and happiness. They are ready to clear their pain to move into their true soul knowing and calling, big love partnership, bigger abundance than they ever dreamed of and are willing to do whatever it will take to make this happen because they are that important to themselves.

 

JenniF“…Deb is amazing. She always made me feel like I could trust her and she was looking out for my best interest, she is very honest and intuitive. I get excited for my sessions every week. I love improving. This has been a game changer for me and now I’m ready to conquer the world! If you give her a chance and have a strong desire to change for the better, you will find similar results for your life.” – Jenni F.

amandahinman“I was so curious when I first me Deb and she told me how she helps people clear old patterns that continue to affect their life.  The idea of connecting with someone that can help me grow and have a more enjoyable life is something I’m drawn to.  After only a few shorts conversations and one clearing session, Deb has provided tremendous insight and value to my life.  Specifically, she helped me to recognize that I had a pattern of putting other’s care and well-being before my own and that it was actually negatively impacting the way I showed up as a mom for my four girls.  I feel very grateful because after only the one session, my energy shifted very dramatically.  Without even saying anything to my daughters, they have responded in a completely different way.  Specifically, they have been more willing to help around the house and communicate their needs.  It sounds almost unbelievable to me, accept that I have experienced how dramatic and change can be when only one person shifts their energy.  I would highly recommend Deb to anyone that is interested in moving forward in a new direction in life!”                                                                                                                   – Amanda H.

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Deborah helped me identify and transform issues that have been holding me back my entire life. Since I started working with her, I feel like a weight has been lifted off of me. Because of this work, I get to show up in the world in a more authentic way, creating a life that’s really true for me.  She is truly inspiring and great to work with!” – Michelle P.

MarjoT“When I had the breakthrough session with Deb, I knew she would be the right coach for me. Her energy resonated with me and I knew that she would be able to assist me with my particular goal. I needed her guidance and techniques to move on from a stuck place in my life. I needed her help in raising my energy and awareness.” – Marjo T.

Our time together is designed to help you:

  • Break through your patterns, pain and trauma
  • Clear your energy blocks to love, abundance (money!), career/soul purpose, health, intuition and more!
  • Create and attract your dream relationship, career and life
  • Discover your value and happiness within yourself to know you are always enough
  • Connect to and feel your feelings to open to the joy that’s in every moment, not just the “good” moments
  • Learn to put yourself first guilt-free and ask for help when you need it
  • End the cycle of obsessing and ruminating about things
  • Let go of control and attaching to outcomes
  • Own, speak & move from truth
  • Live from peace, calm and trust
  • Step into your true power, so you can really be seen & heard, play big in life and manifest your desires quickly
  • Access your intuition so you can find the answers within
  • Unlock a world of infinite possibilities, with more ease, confidence & clarity
  • Open to and live in presence, flow, magic and miracles

 

 

If you’re ready to join me, below are the ways we can work together. (And, if One-on-One Coaching doesn’t feel like the right fit, look for new Energy-Clearing Audios and Programs – Coming Soon!) And, of course, each session and package is tailored to your individual needs, desires and goals!


LOVE, ABUNDANCE & LIFE ENERGY-CLEARING PACKAGES

Pattern-Upgrade Session – One Session 

Do you have one specific thing that you’re wanting to work on at the moment that you’re ready to see change? Maybe you’re new to energy clearing and/or working with me? Maybe you’ve even tried other coaches, modalities or even therapy, without much success? Whatever the case, get ready to upgrade to the next level with this session that is a great starting point to big change!

Energy-Evolution Package – Five Sessions 

Are you ready to undo some of the old patterns, pain/trauma and stories that have been holding you back in your life? Maybe there’s one area of your life, many times a traumatic childhood moment, or something around love, abundance or soul purpose, that you’ve struggled with, and you’re ready to dive in to change it permanently? Whatever the case, this package is for you!

Energy-Expansion Package – Ten Sessions 

Are you over where you are and ready for your life to look completely different? Are you wanting to see transformation in multiple areas of your life that may include love & relationship, abundance, soul purpose and/or health? Are you desiring to tap into your soul’s messages and truths to really align and move towards your life’s purpose and passions? Are you ready to live in powerful presence each moment of the day and have a new awareness of yourself, others and life? Then, it’s time to clear what’s holding you back and expand into the life that’s calling you!

  • Undo the old patterns, pain and trauma that are stopping you from creating what you are desiring, so you can have the love, abundance and life (to name a few!) that you’ve always dreamed of!
  • Unravel everything that’s not you, including old patterns, stories and low-level energies, so you can really live and speak from your truth versus the world’s
  • Shift into big awarenesses, awarenesses that may have been previously unexplored
  • Raise your consciousness to new heights so you really live in true presence, love and peace
  • Open to your soul’s messages and intuition, so you can really own and follow them
  • Expand into new energies, energies that will become part of you to help you to be happier, manifest quicker and tune in to the guidance we all have, but have blocked ourselves from hearing
  • Move into the world of magic, miracles and flow so you can fall in love with yourself, others and life!

This package is for people wanting to see their lives look completely different and are ready to do the deep, hard work that will take you there. Maybe you’ve even reached the ultimate low or a breaking point in your life & feel lost. You may not even know what you need; you just know you’re ready for things to be different. Whatever the case, this package is the perfect package to turn it all around!

 

ONE-ON-ONE COACHING NOT A GOOD FIT? LOOK FOR MY LOVE, LIGHT AND ABUNDANCE ENERGY-CLEARING PROGRAM AND AUDIOS – COMING SOON!!!

Not sure which one of the above is right for you? Let’s connect! Simply email me through the Contact Page of my website or at deb@deborahacker.com, and I will get back to you asap!

1508575_10203501750610674_942715810_n“In just one hour-long session with Deborah, I had new awareness of long-held negative beliefs. I didn’t realize how much these beliefs were sabotaging my efforts towards more complete relationships. The awareness I gained, helped me to act and move towards a better future. Thanks Deb, for opening my heart to more.”  – Dacia C.

me“Deb is one of those rare people who has the ability to cut right through the clutter and get to what is real and what matters. I value her ear, her advice and most importantly, her friendship.” – Lara M.