The thing that stops us from having the life we want: Our Patterns

How to Identify and Clear Our Patterns and Be True to Ourselves I work with a lot of people around their patterns and pain, and what I’ve come to realize is this is the single-biggest thing that’s stopping us from having the life we want. So, first of all, what is a pattern? A pattern in the way that I define it is a set of behaviors, beliefs, emotions, blocks or energies that keep recurring over and over in our lives. One super common pattern I see is settling for less than you desire and deserve in your life. Many times, […]

What Causes Our Patterns and How to Heal Them

I work with a lot of women who come to me with things they are wanting in their life. This can include everything from attracting their love partner to making more money and everything in between. And, the one common thing I see is, while they have a strong desire for what they are wanting, they are subconsciously stopping this from occurring because of patterns and pain they’ve taken on and experienced in their childhood. Let me explain. Say, for instance, you are desiring a love partner. You may even have no difficulty meeting men. Unfortunately, though, the men you do […]

Are you protecting yourself unnecessarily?

Three Ways We Try to Have Control in Our Lives I want to talk to you about the ways we protect ourselves. For me, I’m noticing that, many times, to try to protect myself or keep myself safe, I try to determine an outcome before I step forward. For example, if I’m putting my work out to a group, I’ll try to figure out if they’ll say yes and even think that if I word something a specific way or say too much/too little, this can have an impact. This gets magnified with being super intuitive, as I’m constantly trying […]

Where are you dangerous?

The other night I was having dinner with a friend and the question, “Where are you dangerous?” came up. At first, it took me a bit aback. There was something about the question itself that felt dangerous, something that when the question itself truly landed in me, scared me a bit. This was understandable, too, as it’s easy, and really, safe, not to think of our lives in this context. After all, we’re all doing the best we can in any given moment, and most of us are conditioned to move away from things that scare us, or are even […]

One Small Way You Can Make a Big Difference this Valentine’s Day and Beyond

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There’s something I’ve been noticing for quite some time now, and with everything that’s going on in the world, and ironically, with the upcoming “love” holiday, now, more than ever, it’s important to talk about this. What is it, you ask? It’s about how we give love. Most of us give it like it’s a limited resource or like it’s a million dollars we’re giving away. We reserve it for the special few and only after it’s truly been earned. (Love needs to be earned is such a common pattern.) But my question to you is why? Love is free. Love is […]

The Impact of Saturday’s March on Collective Consciousness

Saturday’s March really touched me. To see people all over the world coming together was beautiful. And, as I was driving home later that day, I got a hit to check-in on our collective consciousness. Not surprisingly, with that many people taking a peaceful stand, the collective consciousness rose. Truthfully, as an Energy Healer and Consciousness Leader, and in general, someone who lives in the energy, the shift was palpable, and I felt super excited for our world. This shift in our world is the key to big change – in our individual lives, in our government, and most importantly, […]

Inner Peace in 15 Minutes

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I receive a lot of requests for “quick” help for inner peace, happiness, abundance and overcoming fear, and, while I get the desire behind these requests, underneath these requests is a pattern I recognize quite well. What pattern is this? It’s the pattern of wanting the answers and a quick solution. It makes sense, too, as we come into this world wired that way. You see, when we’re just in our energy state, and not in physical form, things are only all good, and because time and space doesn’t exist there, we literally think of something and it’s there. We […]

Will this be you heading into the New Year?

As December is wrapping up, I’ve been working with a lot of people getting ready for the New Year. And, one of the biggest, untalked-about secrets to change is choice. What do I mean by this? It’s not just saying that this year is going to be different, Instead, it’s actually taking the steps necessary to make that happen. Many of us desire a different life, but it takes bravery and heart to be willing to weather the storms to actually create that life and to stop making excuses. So, if you fall into this category, and are ready to […]

My 2016 Life Lessons & A New Way to Look at the Year’s Success

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As I reflect on this year, my 2016 can be summed up in two words, “Letting Go.” Historically, for me, letting go has not been something that’s been easy, as having control is something I perceived has helped keep me safe. But, with this year, came a letting go of protection and old ways of being, and really, doing and creating, as well as letting go of many of the things I thought I knew, to step into even more of the world that’s calling to me. What has this looked like? It’s meant letting go of old relationships, which […]

Loving Difficult Family During the Holidays

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While for many, the holidays with family are filled with fun and love, for others, the holidays can bring up old tensions, arguments and challenges. For those that fall into the latter category, here are some tips to make the holidays more free flowing (and loving!). 1. Cut All Cords. So, first of all, what do I mean when I say, “Cut All Cords?” From the time when we’re little, it’s very common for our family members to subconsciously put certain cords in us (and us in them). These cords hold us to certain roles, expectations and stories. Examples of […]